There will always be someone prettier than you, someone better than you, someone smarter than you, someone good than you, someone perform well than you and so much more. But have we ever stop all this negativity inside us that drive us apart and thank to Allah with what He have gave you all this while. Yes, there will always be problem around the corner, the will always be failure on exam, there will always be a sudden heartbreak, there will be millions things that might occur but have we ever be thankful by just waking up healthy with well breathing, surround by wonderful families and friends?
We always complain for not having what we don't having what we want but we never realize there's people outside there struggling to survive by not having what they really need for life. Be faithful at least you have parents to support you emotionally, financially and love you with unconditional. Realize that there's bunch of kids have to wake up with no parents around, facing starvation, no shelter, no proper education and even no nice clothes to put on them.
Do you really have to kill yourself by jumping on the cliff just because you failed one paper when there's thousand of people dying to be in your place to have a better education. Think positive, maybe Allah want you to realize that you might lost of track and He wants you back to be faithful and be thankful on what you have in hand now.
"Cinta itu fitrah Allah, tetapi lebih manis untuk dikongsi andai ia Halal di jalan Allah"
Does it worth it to cut and hurt yourself when your love life ending drastically not like what you hope for? Does it worth to bleed yourself for someone that not sure yours? Will he/she appreciate what you have done? Will he/she take you back or be together again after what you did without Allah's will? That's a reason why in Islam couples before marriage is Haram. Allah will never harm His follower without any bold reasons. Would it be sweet to fall and be in love with someone that yours and happen to be fall Halal in Allah's mercy?
"Real love means helping each other attain Jannah, not holding each other’s hands walking towards Hell fire."(Stunning Hijab)
Does it worth it to blame Allah just because your life were not working well as what you plan and forgot about all the wonderful life Allah have given to you? Have you ever stop your day and be thankful with what have Allah given to you all this while. So do you ever think it deeply to blame Him for not following on your plan and forget all the good part in life you have experience before? There's a reason why things happen, just keep calm and never stop kneeing down and ask for Allah. Allah will always have a better plan than us, He knows what's the best for us and He knows what life's waiting for us in future. Take the failure/hardship as the strength for you to be a better person and stronger. Challenge yourself to be patient and see life in different perspective. Put empathy when you see people lower than you and try to walk in their shoes; Insyallah bit by bit you will grow the faithful feeling inside you and you'll be surprise with what Allah have given to you.
Alhamdulillah today is 1st Rejab, means 60days more before Ramadhan. Let's change ourself for better, because in order to get the best we must prepare ourself to be a better servants for Allah. It's okay to cry once in a while, but make sure by the time you stop crying promise yourself you will never cry for the same reason again.
Insyallah we will meet again,
Ain Afiqah Ab Rahman.
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